Zari’s controversial take on love and money

What the report says

Ugandan socialite and businesswoman Zari Hassan has stirred debate after using a TikTok Live session to argue that women who are kept from working by their partners but are not financially supported should not feel ashamed of seeking help elsewhere. In remarks reported by Sqoop Uganda, she framed that choice as a form of self-protection rather than a moral failing, saying some women are left trapped when their partners control money and still fail to cover basic needs.

According to the publisher, Zari said the problem often begins when men discourage their partners from earning an income but do not meet their own responsibilities at home. She also suggested that financial pressure can push women toward emotional and economic security from another man, especially when money is used as a tool of control. Her comments were made in a conversational, provocative style and included a warning that anyone who followed her advice would do so at their own risk.

The remarks quickly drew reaction online, with some users agreeing that financial neglect can leave women vulnerable, while others criticized her for appearing to excuse cheating. The discussion highlights ongoing public debate around power, dependency and expectations in relationships, especially in settings where one partner controls access to income. Sqoop Uganda presented the comments as part of a wider social-media conversation rather than a formal policy position.